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                      女為悅己者容

                      時間:2015-11-23    閱讀:970 次   

                      “女為悅己者容”出自《戰國策?趙策》,意思非常直白,兩千多年前的古人都如此懂得以獨特的唯美情懷回應于欣賞自己的人,著實讓人感動。其間流露出的淳樸執著也顯見那個社會時段所包含的審美概念、人文思想。

                      愛美之心始于天性,以貌取人世人皆然,悅人耳目永遠是女子被公認為應該具有的最重要的人生標志,因此“女為悅己者容”一方面來說過于狹隘,僅為“悅己者”才“容”?何況“悅己者”也并非都是“己悅”之人,為什么只為他們才去精心修飾自己呢?另一方面過于拘泥,缺少了“己容”的前提,又何來“悅己者”?再一方面就是媚俗,“為悅己者容”,太委屈自己了,人生最多不過百年,匆匆的來去之間,有什么理由不善待自己?“女為己容”才是點睛之筆。

                      當然,“女為悅己者容”對于“悅己者”而言,是忠貞,但未免有些愚忠,說是感激更為貼切。古代的女子恪守閨房,出嫁從夫,“悅己者”恐怕也寥寥無幾,能遇上“己悅”之人更是難得,那么真正的“容”為何人?也許連她自己也未必清楚。

                      現代人就不一樣了,可以非常強調自我地說出“女為己容”。“女為己容”釋放著對生命的執著與熱愛。在約定俗成的審美規范里,在人們理所當然的目光中,一個女子首先被稱道的仍然是她的美麗,但事實上并非人人都是“清水出芙蓉”。“女為己容”要因人而宜,容貌美麗的女孩要學會怎樣去展示自己的美,相貌平平的女孩要懂得如何去雕塑自己的美。

                      非常有幸的是,在現代人眼里,對“美”的理解遠遠超越了古人的單純,顯得更為寬容,更為具體:能動人心弦的“美”應該是“靜態美”與“動態美”的完美結合。“靜態美”是靠無可挑剔的容顏、曲線玲瓏的身材給人帶來的感官上的愉悅,是感性的美。可時至今日,這樣的美麗已經是可以制造的,“靜態美”的優越感不再那么讓人羨慕,所以“動態美”,也是通常所說的知性美,就成為女孩們的必修功課,往往相貌平平的女孩更為刻苦和專注。因為我們不得不承認,優雅的談吐、個性而成的風韻、舉手投足所生的魅力,的確使很多相貌平平的女子因之有了傾倒眾生的感召力,而這種靈氣與內涵也的確是后天雕琢而成的。試想一個充滿自信、開朗樂觀的女孩怎么會不容光煥發?怎么會不由內向外的神采飛揚?怎么會不由表及里的光彩照人?怎么會不被人欣賞贊嘆呢?

                      由此而言,“女為已容”才更懂得“為悅已者容”,且此“容”不等同于彼“容”,如果說“女為己容”強調內外兼修,那么“為悅已者容”必會繁衍出更鮮活的情感細胞為之動容。比如學會撒嬌,這“嬌”一定要“撒”得恰到好處,要撒出品味、撒出溫柔、撒出浪漫、撒出實實在在的嬌氣。在適當的時候、適當的場合對心愛的那個“悅已者”撒撒嬌、耍耍性子,一副淚眼盈盈的楚楚可人樣子,話說男子漢大丈夫流血不流淚,只為這份“嬌氣”而折腰,“女為悅已者容”,何等幸福?( 文章閱讀網:www.onnd5.com )

                      “女為悅已者容”,“容”為何物?能言傳的只是見解,意會的才是精髓。

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